The Journey Out


An Individual Approach to Recovery
One of the most common questions asked is: “Can I fix this by myself?”

Common Barriers to Effective Accountability
Establishing healthy accountability relationships is one of the more difficult tasks for a Christian.

Common Barriers to Seeking Counseling
For many, seeking the services of a professional counselor is a lot like going to the dentist—but worse.

Control: The Last Stronghold of Lesbianism (Part 1)
To move out from a lifetime of control and self-protection is an awesome thing for a woman who has been deeply hurt.

Control: The Last Stronghold of Lesbianism (Part 2)
The decision to let control die is to say to God, “If you want me to be hurt, I will be hurt.

Counseling for Unwanted Same-Sex Attractions
People have the right to seek change and live in alignment with their chosen values.

De-Sexualizing the Deeper Need
Homosexuality is more than sex, and there were other parts of me that needed to be healed and changed.

God is Patient, Be Patient with Your Self
Patience is one of the clearest manifestations of God’s grace.

Guidelines for Selecting a Counselor
When selecting a therapist, consider three basic categories: spiritual, professional, and practical.

Healing and Growth: Homosexuality and Christian Character
Overcoming homosexuality is so much more than changing behavior.

How to Develop Effective Accountability
Our most basic need in life is relationship with God and others.

Manhood without Narcissism
There is often a high degree of narcissism in male homosexuality.

Still Struggling With Same-Sex Attraction
There are many powerful stories out there about men and women whom God has delivered from the gay lifestyle.

The Importance of Counseling
Gone are the days when counseling was just for “the mentally ill.”

What Do We Mean When We Talk About Change?
Freedom from male homosexuality.

What Does Healing Look Like?
There is probably not a one of us that would not give nearly anything for a normal life.